January 7, 2022

My Return To The Community

 Hello Wizards!

I hope you're having a wonderful start to 2022. I can't believe we're already a week into the year. Over the past week, I've been acting all futuristic just because of all of the futuristic films I watched years ago about the 2020s. Speaking of the future, I wanted to talk about my plans for the community - specifically later this year and beyond.


Before I begin, I want to tell you what I've been up to over the past few years. Before Visions of the Spiral (which I'm still working on), I decided to take a break to focus on my mental health. God knows the past few years have been chaotic, online and offline. My offline life has made me somewhat of a second father since I was 17. There were no parties, no friends, no boyfriend, and overall, no drama (wait, that's a good thing) in my offline life. I had to grow up quickly, work, and take care of two family members. 

Online, I brought all of my frustration into the community. I had to put my plans aside, which I certainly don't regret, but putting those plans aside hurt me. Online, I had a chance to create a website and host in-game events. When things didn't work out as planned, I certainly went off. I couldn't control my life as I wanted, so I tried to control the community. I started realizing just over a year ago that having a community in the image I wanted would be unrealistic and fake. 

Fast forward to today and it's easy to see how many mistakes I've made. Of course, one human being can't do everything wrong, and there are people that made just as many mistakes as I've made. We're all human - it's normal. What matters is how we move forward. We have to remind ourselves that we can't continue to repeat the same mistakes over and over. It actually makes me laugh when I think of the times I was upset over the silliest of things. There are also things I still stand by, but that doesn't matter. What matters to me is continuing my hobby and hanging out with good friends here in the community.

It's been quite a while since I've hosted in-game events for every Holiday and this year, I plan to do that again. Hosting these events was always so much fun but not because of how many people attended. My favorite event was the first Santa Run. We had around 6 people show up and we ran around the pond in The Commons. That was 10 years ago this December. My goal now is to host events like that to make everyone's Holiday special. 

I can't and won't change what others believe, but I'll let you know what I believe. No matter who or where you worship, your political beliefs, your race, where you're from, etc. - you are always welcome to attend our in-game events. It's how I want to host these events going forward. No drama with random people. I can't say I'm just doing this for the community. I'm also doing it for myself because it's something I've grown to enjoy for 10 years. And I've missed you guys. I hope you'll be able to join us - starting with the Bunny Run of 2022 for Fansite Festival coming later this Spring. Thank you all so much for reading and until next time, I'll see you around the spiral.

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December 3, 2021

25 Days Of Christmas - Favorite Time Of Year - Day 3

 Hello there!

I can't believe I almost forgot to post a Christmas song for the 3rd Day of December. Well, I just got home from work, and I'm very exhausted, but that doesn't mean I was going to skip out on posting a new favorite song. Here's "Favorite Time Of Year" by Carrie Underwood!

December 2, 2021

25 Days Of Christmas - The Christmas Sweater - Day 2

 Hello there!


Welcome to the Day 2 of 25 Days of Christmas. Each day throughout December I'll post some of my favorite Christmas songs right here on Around the Spiral. This year marks 10 years since I first started doing this - time certainly is flying. Today, I thought I'd share a new & cute Christmas song called "The Christmas Sweater" by Michael Buble!

December 1, 2021

Life Update - A Chaotic 2021

 Hello there!

It's been a while since I've made a normal blog post talking about what I've been up to, so I thought now was a perfect time since I'm not too busy. First of all, I hope all of you are having a wonderful Holiday Season and enjoying questing in the newly released world of Lemuria!


Over the past several months, I've been dealing with a lot of personal issues which prevented me from hosting new in-game events, working on the new website (currently inactive - it'll be back, bigger and better than ever), and of course, playing Wizard101 & Pirate101. It certainly has been a crazy ride, but I kept pushing through. Things are finally heading in the right direction - if anything, things are better than they have been since before I joined this community 12 years ago. 

I've had plenty of chaotic moments in my offline life, but also in my online life here in the community. I've gotten involved in the wrong crowds, went off on people for no reason, and lost plenty of great friends. It took me years but I finally realize why that sort of stuff surrounded me. I wanted structure. 

The way I found that sort of structure was by not dwelling on the past or worrying about changes in my life. I had to embrace the future and embrace change for the first time in forever. That's actually what helped me through such a chaotic year. The community certainly has changed. Many of my friends are no longer playing the game. While I will certainly miss my old friends, I look forward to making new friends here as time progresses. 

Anyway, I hope all of you enjoyed this random blog post/update. I wanted to type for some reason. It's almost as if this blog is now a diary of some sort. Hmmm! Maybe I'll keep the blog up and running for random posts like this. :D Thank you all for your time. Have a wonderful Holiday season. Until next time, I'll see you around the spiral.

December 1, 2021

25 Days Of Christmas - Last Christmas - Day 1

 Hello there!

I'm back on Around the Spiral with Edward Lifegem to celebrate the 10th year in a row of posting my favorite Christmas songs on this blog. :D I know it's been a while, but I want to reassure all of you I'm here and not going anywhere. For now, I'm going to share the first song of the month - Last Christmas by Wham! 

I hope all of you have a wonderful and safe Christmas season. It's certainly an amazing time of year and I look forward to posting Christmas songs through the 25th of December to try to make your Holiday season even merrier. 

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